Life is a "Race?"???

  Hi friends... 

Yesterday my friend's results has been declare. He has topped. In film 'Three Idiots' there is one dialogue, 'Dost first aajaye to jada dukha hota hai'.  :P  That is not applied here. :) I am very happy for him.  Another quoted lines in same movie are remembered by everybody,  and that to co-ordinate with your studies, career and everything. Competitive world, Life is a race, you have to win.. bla bla bla..  And unfortunately, he follows the same strategy. 

He always used to feel sick when exams come near; cheat his best friend for notes. He always used to keep secret something. In this way if he even comes first who is going to enjoy her success?. “Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.” Albert Einstein has truly said.  Is he going to remember this marks or friends for life time?? 

I remember in childhood if my friend is not going to come in school I also used to deny to go. I remember my  career plans were more exciting when I was just five. :P  There are perhaps no days of our childhood we lived so fully. Just a single lollipop could make us happy. Daddy's shoulder was the highest place for us. Its impossible to get that time back. 

As the age age grows up why do we get more n more away from morals? Growing apart doesn't change the fact that for a long time we grew side by side; our roots will always be tangled to the land of morals we learned in childhood. I don't know what actually  spoils mind?  Is that the competitive world outside or teachers or parents or system? Grown ups are somewhat complicated creatures.  What we learn up to five is engraved in mind.   Learning is a fun and not just for exams should be "Sanskar" in school. Yes, life is a race but " Don’t waste your energy and time trying to compare with others….. Sometimes you are ahead… Sometimes behind…. The race is long and in the end it’s only with" your self "!! Why this should not be taught? I hope Someday he'll definitely realize that his friend who was ready to give anything for him was more important than his cheated marks...  

The magic of first love

Hi friends.. 

I am back. Long long time hmm.. I was really missing this writing pad.. Here's lot lot to share with you as usual.. :) many things, events happenings.. 

Recently one of my friend got engaged. Its arranged marriage. His would be wife and me used to talk a lot. Even more than they would have talk. ;) She's very sweet girl. Kind of usual romantic thing that is obvious to happen in Indian arranged marriage are going between them. First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever. Yesterday I was talking to her and i noticed one thing.

There are few lines which are perfect for every Indian bride -  "Mere Rang Mein Rangne Wali Pari Ho Ya Ho Pariyoon Ki Rani..."  She has been totally fascinated by my friend. And as the lines says, she tends to actually get "dissolve" in his life. As the science says, if one compound wanna get dissolve in some solvent it must leave its structure or property something like that. I found that she is ready or she wanna loose her likes or dislikes for him. I don't know how but his favorite songs, movies, color, everything has become favorite and special for her. Is it what called the magic of love? :) And another interesting thing is they both deny this thing!



I thought this is very impractical. This should not be like this..! She should retain her own identity. Thinking this, I went back time when there was first inning of my relationship. I was in love, and the feeling was even more wonderful than I ever imagined it could be. It got smile on my face. Every girl tends to have same kind of behavioral pattern. I was also doing same things. I remember one thing, my fiance told me one song. It was very uncommon and from unpopular movie. Still it has got in list in my favorite songs. We were discussing about our favorite places for holidays. He told me "Tarkarli" in Konkan is his most favorite. I have never been there but still i finaled it for our I st trip. How this happened..?!!! :)As Albert Einstein says,"No, this trick won't work... How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? ” Somethings are to be feel only. Love is not when you think from your heart, But love is when you stop thinking.. :)