Friday, February 1, 2013

The magic of first love

Hi friends.. 

I am back. Long long time hmm.. I was really missing this writing pad.. Here's lot lot to share with you as usual.. :) many things, events happenings.. 

Recently one of my friend got engaged. Its arranged marriage. His would be wife and me used to talk a lot. Even more than they would have talk. ;) She's very sweet girl. Kind of usual romantic thing that is obvious to happen in Indian arranged marriage are going between them. First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever. Yesterday I was talking to her and i noticed one thing.

There are few lines which are perfect for every Indian bride -  "Mere Rang Mein Rangne Wali Pari Ho Ya Ho Pariyoon Ki Rani..."  She has been totally fascinated by my friend. And as the lines says, she tends to actually get "dissolve" in his life. As the science says, if one compound wanna get dissolve in some solvent it must leave its structure or property something like that. I found that she is ready or she wanna loose her likes or dislikes for him. I don't know how but his favorite songs, movies, color, everything has become favorite and special for her. Is it what called the magic of love? :) And another interesting thing is they both deny this thing!



I thought this is very impractical. This should not be like this..! She should retain her own identity. Thinking this, I went back time when there was first inning of my relationship. I was in love, and the feeling was even more wonderful than I ever imagined it could be. It got smile on my face. Every girl tends to have same kind of behavioral pattern. I was also doing same things. I remember one thing, my fiance told me one song. It was very uncommon and from unpopular movie. Still it has got in list in my favorite songs. We were discussing about our favorite places for holidays. He told me "Tarkarli" in Konkan is his most favorite. I have never been there but still i finaled it for our I st trip. How this happened..?!!! :)As Albert Einstein says,"No, this trick won't work... How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? ” Somethings are to be feel only. Love is not when you think from your heart, But love is when you stop thinking.. :)        

7 comments:

Rohan Ratnaparkhi said...

In every relationship there is only curiosity that binds ppl together, curiosity to know, to understand and what not... And once u knw everything... D relationship starts to fade !

Curiosity ends... Relationship Dies !

Rutwik said...

Probably you should add one checkbox there... 'wonderful!'

A short, simple and most importantly genuine piece of writing! All the best in your life-love!

Unknown said...

Hey aasavari so glad to know that even you are in relationship..... All the very best honey..... And yaaa you have written very true lines about love...... :) I know life partner is the life time investment...

Charuta said...

छान लिहिलं आहेस...खूप साधं आणि खूप गोड गोड! :)

Unknown said...

Superb asavari ..... really true about ur friend ...i know that ..... just liked it ......

LAMP Associates said...

True Love..a life..start and ends with it...no one can know what a love is unless he start loving himself...so love yourself and respect others and more importantly give time to your partner as in every phase of your life your partner will be with you in good times as well as in bad times.. as usual caring you...helping you and more importantly backing you for what you are and what you should be...
hey asavari nice lines...good to see...

Unknown said...

it's amazing